A number of new neighbors have moved into our neighborhood and, with the number of houses for sale, more will be moving in. I long to be a good neighbor and to live in a friendly and giving community.
I started thinking about ways we could introduce ourselves and build a better neighborhood.
While baked goods and casseroles have the the staple of Southern hospitality for over a century and are always appreciated, remember it truly is the thought that counts.
- Buy a box of microwave popcorn. Print out a picture of your family. Create a card that reads, “Just poppin’ by to meet you. We’re the Smiths and we live _______________.” Include an email address or phone number, if you’re willing, to keep the conversation going. If no one answers your knock or doorbell ring, leave the box near the door.
- We have a lot of dogs in the neighborhood. Often, the way to a neighbor’s heart is through the dog’s wagging tail. The next time you’re at Kroger and you’re lost in aisles without labels, try to find a dog toy to deliver to the furry friend nearby.
- Create a giving plate. This one will take some craftiness and a little time. Go to a self-designing pottery place like Third Coast Clay in Frankin, Tenn and create a plate. Write on the main body of the plate, “This is a giving plate. It is owned by no one. Fill this plate with a favorite dish or batch of goodies and pay the gift you received forward to another neighbor.” Once the plate is done, start the tradition and give it away.
- Create an event of your own… a coffee klatch, book club, Sunday at the Masters, an Oscars party, toy exchange, etc. If your neighborhood has a Facebook Group, be active online and use the “events” tool to create one.
- Just say hello. Just introduce yourself. It might take a little bravery, but go for it! You’ll be glad you did.
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